TY - BOOK AU - Richards,James B. AU - Richards, James B. TI - How to stop the pain SN - 0883687224 AV - BV4597.54 .R53 2001 U1 - 248.86 R515H 21 PY - 2001/// CY - New Kensington, PA PB - Whitaker House KW - Judgment KW - Religious aspects KW - Christianity KW - Suffering N1 - Critical factors -- What is judgment? -- Breaking the power of pain -- The power of significance -- Observers, not judges -- Fixing you is killing me -- You're the problem, not me -- The critical eye -- Knowing the boundaries -- God of my world -- How I see it -- Identifying behavior patterns -- Destroying every new relationship -- Becoming like little children -- Life in my imaginary world -- Freedom from the judgment of others -- Overcoming the need to judge -- Freedom from justification -- Freedom from self-judgment -- Knowing my stuff -- Judging God -- Associations and judgments -- Spiritual gifts and judgment -- A word for the clueless -- Relationships that work -- Excuse me while I eat my words -- Confession : the pathway to peace -- Suicidal self-judgment -- Finding the real you -- Gaining a new perspective -- Freedom from the pain of the past -- Living out of God's judgment -- Life without limits -- The self-worth solution -- Removing the splinter -- The love factor ER -